You’ve heard of the law of attraction but have you heard of “like attracts like”?
It’s the same concept but you’ve heard the latter in scientific settings.
What does it all mean? Well, in grade school you learned that positive ions are attracted to positive ions and the same for negative ions. This is the concept of “like attracts like”. It’s a proven scientific principle that applies across all living organisms and matter of the universe.
If you apply this concept to your energy frequency you’ll see that people with a low frequency — people who are insecure and self-abandoning — attract each other, while people with a high frequency — people who love and value themselves — also attract each other.
Those who are positive, open, caring, and kind are not attracted to people who are closed, negative, and needy.
While you aren’t deliberately trying to attract negative people in your life, your thoughts, beliefs, and actions are. Look at the people in your life, do they inspire you or bring you down?
Remember that you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. That can be hard to accept if you are desperate to have more positivity but you’re surrounded by negative people. (I’ve been there)
So what do you do if you’re surrounded by negativity and just downright crappy people? You have to be willing to make a massive shift. And that’s scary to a lot of people who want to change. I speak to so many women who dream of more in life but get stuck here. It’s easier to get stuck in that negative circle of friends. Why? Because it’s science. “Like attracts like”
Did you know that negativity is 5x more likely to stick in your brain? So this means if you want to go down a more positive path, you better be bombarding your sub-conscious with a ton of positivity every single day! And how the heck do you do this when you’re surrounded by negativity?! It’s hard but not impossible. Trust me, I did it.
This is EXACTLY why I started Awakened Mom Life. You can’t do it alone and if you try you will fail. Again, I know because I’ve been there.
When I finally started to grow my positive circle of influence, that’s when real change started to happen. I began having a life coach at all times to hold me accountable and I started to limit time with people who didn’t bring joy into my life.
The 5 people I surround myself with now are amazing, beautiful, thoughtful, positive human beings that make me proud to have in my life.
Do you need support and tools to bring more positivity and growth into your life?